Sweetie's picture

SD blog entry

This is taken from a blog entry. (Well, "to put it simple, I'm hurt".) Yea, me, too. Then, there are all the nouns, adjectives, and adverbs, describing the word, "hurt". How about we describe the word carnage, and what was left of my husband and I after our lives were ruined? Many of you know what carnage is. I haven't done anything yet, but this SD diva drama queen , is going on and on, how hurt she is. And I'm thinking, "talk to the hand", cause no one here cares. Your Dad isn't MIA. Get a life. He doesn't care. Your behavior has alienated people who loved you. Maybe someday these thoughts will pop in to my SD head. Yeah, like maybe when she's ninety. But for now, just know, that your Dad and I have read your blogs, and known what you've been doing all these years. And it's been almost four years since you pulled what you that was a fantastic manipulative trick--your runaway--because your Dad told you no. So, I hope it all turned out as great as your thought it would. B/C I am here, in the GA sunshine "flaunting" my husband, of seven years now, and we are very happy together. How many times did I set aside extra days/times for Dad to do something special--like bowling or roller skating? How many parties and overnighters did we do so you could have friends over? How many dozens of cupcakes, rice krispie bars, and cookies have I baked? How many blocks have I walked on my bad ankle to help sell GS cookies? How quickly all those things are forgotten. I took you home with me to my family several times for the holidays. But I guess everything that was done, has been forgotten and swept under the rug. I can only say, you aren't the only one with hurt feelings.

Stepdadchad's picture

What can be done

My ex-wife is furious because I let the kids stay with my mother, instead of my father when I went on my honeymoon. Now based on that one incident, she is threatening me with contept of court, and wants to go back to mediation and force me to pay her child support. We have the kids 50% of the time. I currently do not pay child support because she has a spending problem.

Sherrylyn's picture

SS17 going through breakup

Well last night my SS17 came into the livingroom to give me a big hug. I could tell he was upset but not ready to talk. I made us tea & then he told us that his GF14 has broken up with him. Earlier in the day he went over to his friends place to talk about the break up, & watch World Cup. While they were talking his friend told him that he's been an ass to me. I guess he had to hear it from someone outside the family.

lovin-life's picture

I'm so glad oldest SD lives 3 provinces away...

She called last night....Every time I answer the phone and get that "IS MY DAD THERE?" it drives me crazy. Never, ever, ever, ever how are you...the kids?! I have done nothing to this person...accept deliver her father by plane....for a visit for the first time ever!! Loan her my vehicle, look after her child, buy chirstmas/birthday gifts for her & her family. Try to talk to her to get to know her & she me. (After 5 yrs...I don't bother anymore) AND MAKE HER FATHER THE HAPPIEST HE HAS BEEN IN MORE THAN 20 YEARS!!!!! My GOD!! How horrible!!! I must be punished!!!!!

Sweetie's picture

I may do something drastic to make a point

I have been thinking about this for hours today....and I am thinking that I may just push the issue with the blog threats and do something drastic--at least as far as I can push it--because this time I've really had enough.

Dawn's picture

Very Quiet Weekend

I have been enjoying a very quiet weekend. My husband and stepson went on a trip with the Boyscouts. It is just me and the girls(my dog and two cats)!

The bathrooms have stayed clean, I didn't have to cook and I rented a movie last night that I wanted to rent. Ahhh, the relaxation!

Sweetie's picture

Just Trying to Get By

Well, as I wrote earlier this weekend about my SD and her threat on her blog, that was an interesting read. She doesn't even make a new data entry, just edits the last blog entry. But I have contacted the site about what can be done about threats being posted on their sites because it is the 2nd time now they have appeared on her blog site, directed at me. So, whether she read correspondence I had addressed to her biomom, or whether biomom discussed the content of my correspondence, she should not have cause to threaten me, unless she's hiding something? But I am not going to put up being threatened by a 17 yr old punk. Just thinking about it gives me a headache. Honestly, I think my SD actually counts on the fact that biomom doesn't pay any attention to what she does. And my husband has washed his hands of her as well. I seem to be the only one that knows what's going on with this group of kids. They wrote a bunch of profane graffity on the school walls for a Sr. prank. Real high class stuff. And I just keep thinking back of all the stuff I'd been through with my SD and I shake my head, because it just boggles my mind. My husband summed it up pretty yesterday when he said, I don't know who she is anymore. All I can say is, I don't like what's she's become. I've got 11 months till the end of this mess....it seems like we've waited for it for such a long time to be over. I have to just keep telling myself that I can make it through the rest of this time, but there are days when I just can't stand it. I am trying to get myself motivated to work on other things here around the house like painting, gardening, and crafts. My hands are acting up with the dermatitis again...not fun at all. But I will figure some way to work around it to overcome the problem,somehow. Hope all is well in other parts of the country, for my friends who are actively raising their stepchildren.

Sweetie's picture

Received Warning from SD on her blog

Funny thing, actually I think it's almost humorous...was just briefly checking on recent blog entries from SD. I had sent a letter to biomom with a check and let her know some information about SD's drug and alcohol usage. SD has posted on her blog if anyone knew that she had been drinking or using anyone else's prescriptions? She wrote on there, she would definitely not do a thing like that. I guess, I'll have to send copies of this stuff to her mother by certified mail to make sure that her mother sees it. I think that SD took the letter and checks herself, as I believe that biomom has already moved from the house.

kittymom's picture

Stepson relationship

I have been thinking about this and wondering. I have been a stepmom for 6 years now and at first my twin SS were 7 and now they are 13. I originally thought they would just like me and everthing would be great. I used to hug them and show them affection. Over the years things have changed, we moved into a bigger house with lots of more chores and responsibilities and we moved to the town where they went to school so we could see them more and I had 2 more children, 3 and 1 y/o. Life has just been very busy.

stepblog's picture

Me too! Me too! I need to go to the hospital too!

Puncture wound. Puncture wound. Puncture wound. Just the words themselves are unpleasant and make me all squirmy. I had a health teacher in high school, Pred Poffman, who spent what seemed like an entire week talking about puncture wounds in uneccesary detail. One of my classmates fainted during class from revulsion. I'm not kidding. All I remember from those lectures were his tone when he said "puncture wound" and my poor classmate fainting.